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Yes this is exactly how she said it too. The things she likes to do are things you do alone.
She's pretty upset right now because I watched the all star game. She was like, I guess I don't have a choice!" I probably should've asked if I could watch it and we make the decision of what to watch together, that way I involve her in the relationship and not make it seem like I'm "doing my own thing again." Is that the right
thing to do? This is really BS.

Not to get all baba but my wife is awesome and supports me having Maryland football and basketball tickets. Comes to most games. Has had hilarious conversations with A.C. on the way there ("I've never talked to someone with such fancy gold teeth" backed by "Why do you call him "Big Meech?" he was hilarious in response. Also she lost a bet with me that he would prefer some type of natural chips over Doritos, lol).

Obviously I have to make up points in other areas, but that's what compromise is about.

Anyhow, if you have a balanced relationship with give and take marriage is awesome. If somebody's controlling in any abnormal way, forget it.

She wants to have control over what you two do, but doesn't actually want to make the decision or even put any thought into it. Basically she wants veto power until you come up with a plan she likes.

This will only get worse. If she bitched over you watching the All-Star Game, imagine what will happen when you want to travel for a Terps NCAA tournament game and there's a garden show or some other horseshit that weekend that she thinks you should attend with her instead. Run, don't walk.

Yah I know, she already told me that she's dreading the upcoming md bball season because she has to compete with that for spending time with me.
Are most women like this though?

Some are. I used to think most/all were, but then I met my fiancee and realized just how much time I'd been wasting before.

At minimum, a girl that loves you will be happy that you're happy doing something and will want to come along for the ride - especially if you're willing to compromise and do the same for her.

Just run. Life is too short for that noise.

Exactly. A good partner will allow you that time _and_ will join you for stuff too.

Yeah, after she makes you that sammich.

Sigh. blacky, you should be a man and either get out or put your foot down.

testudo02, run. fast. now.

It's definitely a living in the country with land thing rdurr. Dogs loving being outside they can do whatever they want; sun tan, eat rabbits, go to the bathroom whenever...I'm losing this battle cuz its her dog and we are living in an apartment. I just hate having a house that smells like a dog and I will leave for work everday with dog hair all over my suit..White trashy/poor boy look.

WTF?

Only ones marrying the equivalent of Stu's first gf who fucked the bartender on the cruiseship. Did your fiancee fuck a bartender?

Yeah I am getting married in April and if I was to ask my fiancee if she had ever considered a shared bachelor/bachelorette party she would laugh in my face.